It’s Time to Talk! Junior High
As a parent, you may think your children are not listening to what you are saying. However, research shows that parents have more influence over their children than their friends. It’s Time to Talk!
Key Discussion Points
- Appearance is very important at this age. Let them know that how people look under the influence of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs is not attractive. They won’t look very cool throwing up.
- Educate them on the consequences of drug and alcohol use: social/emotional under-development, chronic and fatal diseases, crippling injuries, extreme risk and addiction.
- Talk about peer pressure. Sometimes peer pressure can lead to a good experience, like trying out for a new sport. However, there are times peer pressure could cause us to make bad and unsafe choices. Discuss how your child deals with peer pressure and ways they can say no.
- Educate and practice with your child ways for them to handle peer pressure.
- Encourage them to engage in positive and healthy activities. CLICK HERE for opportunities for youth summer volunteering. more resources for teens.
- The recent legislation around medical marijuana may lead to confusion about use. Learn more about how to talk to your kids specifically about marijuana HERE.
Communication Tips at Any Age
- Clearly communicate the risks of drug/alcohol use to their bodies, relationships and legal consequences.
- Let your kids know you disapprove of any drug/alcohol use.
- Use “teachable moments” to raise drug/alcohol issues. This could be a scene in a movie or something in the news. Ask them about how they feel about it.
- Frequently talk AND LISTEN to your kids about how things are going in their lives.
Parenting Tips at Any Age
- Have ongoing conversations and provide age appropriate information about drugs and alcohol.
- Be a role model when it comes to drinking, taking medicine and handling stress. If you feel you need help, don’t be afraid to ask.
- Know your child’s friends and their parents.
- Monitor, supervise and set boundaries – The media content your child watches and listens to has the power to influence decision making.
- Discuss good decision making skills with your child.
- Be aware of your child’s social relationships in person and online.
- Don’t believe that allowing your older teen to drink around you will help them learn responsible drinking. Alcohol use is not a “rite of passage.”
- Children need and want the rules they tend to break away from. Expect resistance and attitude. Stay strong.
“I have used drugs in the past.” – Don’t be afraid to talk!
- This isn’t about you, this is about your child and the choices they have to make.
- Don’t Lie… However, do not glamorize your experience.
- Share with your child the lessons you learned or the consequences you had to face because of your drug and/or alcohol use.
- Remember, your child could be at higher risk for addiction if there is drug/alcohol abuse in your family.
More Information & Resources:
Visit our Parent Resource Page
CLICK HERE for more resources for teens
“How to Prevent Drug Use at Every Age” (Partnership for Drug-Free Kids)
“How to talk to your kids about drugs if you did drugs” (Partnership for Drug-Free Kids)
“How to Listen” (Partnership for Drug-Free Kids)